Saturday, May 26, 2018

An Ode To Huck Acton




The British Museum was opened in 1759 on Great Russell Street in London England.  The public has been welcome to visit for free ever since.  And each year almost 7 million people do so.

When you walk into the Great Court – waiting for the exhibit halls to open, there is a sense of greatness, of magnitude of grandeur.  And you are teased by, among other treats, two Egyptian Pharaoh heads from 1400 BC.

And when the doors open to the North, you walk up to what is likely a familiar site to anyone with a passing interest in history – an enormous and authentic statue from Easter Island.  Sitting in an exhibit hall, thousands of miles from its home off the Chilean coast of South America. 

I spent an entire day at this wonderland in the fall of 2015.  I would have gone back again the next day if I didn’t have to fly the long hours across the Atlantic to get home.

But one thought nagged me from the first hour I saw the incredible and priceless artifacts from across the globe and through eons of history - - “What a bunch of damn thieves!”

There are murals from caves in China, mummies from the Gobi desert, the actual facings of the ancient Greek Parthenon, gold from the Romans, paintings from Van Gogh, even totem poles from North America.  If the British explorers could hoist it into a ship –they stole it and put it on display.    

But this isn’t about the British.  Or even the museum and its priceless treasures.  This is about a small man, continually sporting a three-day beard, wearing dirty coveralls, with a raspy voice and a mischievous glint in his eye.  Located in the tiny Southeastern Utah town of Blanding.  In a museum bearing his name.  

Huck at his museum
Hugh Acton (Better known as “Huck”) died, unbeknownst to me, on January 21, 2016.  I spent some great hours with him in Huck’s Museum and Trading Post over my many visits to the Anasazi ruins west of Blanding, Utah.  And though his death is a shock now that I actually know he is gone, we all knew it was coming and continually asked, “What is going to happen to the museum when you are gone?”

One of the great things about Huck was his penchant for mystery.  When coupled with his zeal for life and passion for Anasazi artifacts, you couldn’t help but admire the old goat.  And even after seeing the artifacts a dozen times, you always found yourself ponying up the entrance fee and taking another peek.  When asked about the eventual disposition of his treasures he would point to fading news articles tacked to his wall, which had asked the same question.  He then laughed and rasped, “Not telling.  You’ll have to wait and see.”

Some folks (including many Federal Law Enforcement officers) consider Huck a grave robber and a thief.  And frankly, that is hard to dispute.  It was also hard to prove – and stands as a testament to the craftiness of this western pioneer who thumbed his nose at BLM, the FBI, and the Americans Antiquities Act of 1906.  But there is little doubt left in your mind after touring the quaint and dusty museum, with world-class artifacts, on the main street of Blanding. 

But if the British are heralded for preserving world history (pried from the myriad of cultures around the vast crevices of the world) how can Huck be demonized for doing exactly the same damn thing in his little corner?

Well, I waffle on this one.  During some visits I quietly scorned the lack of science, of stolen provenance, and the greed accompanying a desire to make something belonging to history something “mine”.  But other times, I realized that nowhere else would I ever see such perfect Anasazi history.  So close you could touch it (and many folks did).  And artifacts of every conceivable kind.  Preserved.  Right in this small log structure for the world to see -- for a mere $6. 

I choose not to judge.  Like all of us, Huck was a hero and a villain. 

The first time I met Huck the museum was not open.  We had seen it on the way to the Grand Gulch Primitive Area west of Blanding, UT.   Here hikers wander through ancient American Indian ruins without guides, or signs, or even maps directing where to go.  It is like a giant children’s museum with incredible bits of history around each canyon bend. 

We peered into the window and wondered why it wasn‘t open (the sign and hours said it was) when a small white pickup sent dust whirling as it came to a halt beside our car.  And out popped a tiny little man with the hoarsest voice I ever heard.  He shoved us inside, collected our fees, grabbed a “Budweiser sandwich” from the fridge, and began the first of what would be many tours over the years.  And each time we returned, we brought Huck a six-pack of his favorite picnic accoutrement (beer is a bit scare in the dry Mormon town of Blanding).

 The foyer, unlike the Great Hall of the British Museum, does not inspire confidence that the six-dollar fee will present an actual value.  But Huck throws you a smile, opens the squeaky gate, and proudly ushers his guests into what is likely the most awe inspiring collection of Anasazi artifacts outside the Chicago Field Museum (where the antiquities are hidden from public view in storage – having been obtained from the first famous Anasazi grave digger – Colorado rancher Richard Wetherill). 

Arrowheads, axe heads, beads, pottery, Indian pipes, and toys, and figures (he even showed us some ancient Anasazi hair years after he learned to trust us).  And not like ten or twenty, but hundreds if not thousands of everything you have seen at Mesa Verde or Chaco Canyon National Parks.  And many more they only wish they had.

And Huck tells the story of each item.  Only getting vague when asked when or where he got an item.  Usually saying, “I traded for that” or “It was donated.”  But the glint in his eye bemoans a different truth.

It was a two-hour tour I took every time I passed through town.  And I would go again tomorrow if it were open. 

I remember once, we were chatting with Huck when some new customers came in.  As he usually did, he asked us to wait while he gave the tour so we could pick up where we left off when he was done.  We, of course, politely agreed.  He did have a business to run.  But on this busy fall day – at what was apparently rush hour – a second group came in.  Huck rushed out and asked them to wait, figuring he’d have to cut the first group short to get the second group through.  They told him they didn’t have time and turned to leave.  I offered to give the tour, and I will never forget the look of wonder on Huck’s face when I began repeating – word for word- his stories of the various items he prized so much.  It wasn’t really that hard after the many tours I had taken, but it still made me proud.  Like I was a part of his history too.

And then there was the time he got mad at us.  My twin brother James found an absolutely incredible Anasazi effigy vessel while hiking near Slick horn Canyon.  He rushed back to camp and as we all gathered to see this wonder, we realized this was not just any old find.  This was a magnificent artifact, which needed to be preserved and put on display for everyone to see (it was located on public land and belongs to the people of the United States as far as we were concerned).  The subsequent recovery of the effigy is a story of its own, but we were right about the value and rarity of the find.  It was immediately put on display in the Anasazi museum in Blanding Utah and greets visitors the moment they walk through the door.  It is still in first place, over a decade later. 
Anasazi Effigy - found by James Murray

But after the trek into Slickhorn to show the archeologists where to find it, we had dinner at a local diner and regaled each other with tales of the adventure – generally congratulating each other on what great stewards of the public trust we were.  And then, right before our eyes, little Huck peered over the glass divider separating our booth from his.  Challenging us in that raspy voice, “What are you guys doin’ here?!?!”.  And when we told him, he was none to happy.  He could not understand, for the life of him, why we didn’t put the effigy in his museum.  Maybe we should have.

There is a book called, Finders Keepers, by Craig Childs.  It explores this very topic (and even references Huck’s museum) in depth.  It's a good read and will make you think.

All I know is, its fun to see ‘our’ effigy in a public museum.  And it was also great fun to see Huck.

I’m not sure I’ve swallowed a sip of Budweiser outside Huck’s presence – but I will tonight.  Whether he was a historian or graver robber, or a saint or sinner, Huck was my friend, and I will miss him and his trading post.  Now forever CLOSED. 

Saturday, March 31, 2018

Best of Cabo San Lucas 2018

Here are my best pics.  Hope you enjoy...


  

 
 

  

 

 
  

  

  

  














































What the HELL is wrong with you?

I had been planning a post about the “leaving process” for days.  How the night before departure - regular life worries begin to creep back in.  How I knew it would not be as restful a sleep as the past days of listening to the rolling waves through our open sliding door.  How the pretty girls at the airport in Cabo are all wearing stretch pants, tossled hair, and no makeup on their sunburned faces (unlike the glitzy bedazzled beachwear they had on when we left Denver).

But then the subject of this post took a related but dramatic change.

The Cabo airport is small.  And on Saturdays (especially during peak seasons like Spring Break) it is a VERY busy place.  After quickly checking in and grabbing lunch (do NOT EVER eat at Sbarro’s after a week of five star meals), we drifted around looking for some chairs to sit in.  There was probably enough room for everyone, but hung-over and selfish Americans were taking up entire rows to lay down.  

Marci wanted some ice tea, so we moseyed over to a healthy walk-up deli at the end of the terminal.  Most venues had really long lines, but this one was small and moving fast.  Marci walked up to grab a tea when another man brushed past her and in front of another customer.  And then it happened.  

The guy who had cut in front of everyone pushed his way further ahead, then told the older man he’d jostled that there was a line and that he should wait his turn.  Now I am not exactly an expert in lines, but nothing seemed to indicate there was any line until customers queued to pay.  The older man said something gruff back to the first guy and then all hell broke loose.  The men started cussing (like you’d hear in a biker bar) and then the first guy began to attempt to provoke the older man into a physical fight.  I’m not even joking.

The first guy, a tall, athletic, professional looking American in his late fifties, pushed right into the other man (as I said older, perhaps in his early seventies - looking more like a retiree) and with a physique nearing 300 pounds. It was surreal. The older man didn’t back down but he clearly didn’t want a fight either.  He was making his own LOUD point with invective not suitable for any Saturday - much less on the eve of Christ’s Resurrection.  And then the first guy leaned down and picked up his three-year-old child.  She, very wide-eyed at the unfolding debacle, was lifted up INTO the fray.


WHAT?!?!?

Once the first guy had seriously intimated the old man he began to walk away.  All the while, f-bombing his new nemesis (and of course all of the hundreds of other passengers in ear shot) and taunting the man for being “so fat”.

Wow.  Just wow. What can you even say to that?

Marci and I retreated to a wall by our gate (of course we had to stand so others could sleep comfortably on ‘their’ row of seats).  We tried to make sense of it.  I mean, these were not pubescent boys dripping testoerone from a every pore and fighting over a tanned goddess.  And one would presume that each had just spent a week in a paradise few in the world are lucky enough to enjoy.  There had to be more to this than a quick encounter with another alpha-male at an airport deli?  Did the first guy lose his wife to a dark-skinned, muscle-bound, Mexican?  Was he diagnosed with terminal personality cancer?  And what about that little girl?  What will she remember?  What did she learn?

We also wondered how the story we witnessed would be re-told?  By both men... Surely they will cast themselves as victim’s defending their honor (or some other crock of crap).  I’ll tell you what happened.  What really happened. Those sophmoric “men” embarrassed themselves, our country, and everyone around them.  What a disgrace.

I was tempted to follow the first man.  At first to jibe him, and ask him if he was proud of himself?  Then to chastise him for acting like that with a child. But finally, Iwanted to try to gently help him see himself through everyone else’s eyes.  But that isn’t how America works in 2018.  We shut up and look the other way.

I’m not sure what to take away.  I can tell you without question I would NEVER act this way or tolerate it in my family.  I feel sorry for both men.  I feel sorriest for that baby girl.  And I also realize that just as they had a choice - so do I.

With that, I commit to choose happiness.  I choose to be kind in dealing with others.  I choose courtesy to others, and others before self.  I choose to relish the good and peaceful experience I just ejoyed and to foster the flame of the “Cabo Peace” as long as I can while heading back into regular life.

I am blessed and I choose to be a blessing to others.

Hallelujah, Christ is Risen.

Amen

Friday, March 30, 2018

(Sex)ico

I’ve debated whether to tell this story.  Oh, it’s a good tale, with laughs, and tears, and shakes of heads. And I decided I will tell it -as is.

There is a sad side of the world of the poor.  We all know it exists too. The internal struggle with how far one will go to get ahead.  Or to survive.

In 2011, I was standing outside the stunningly beautiful Catederal de Grenada in Nicaragua.  The priests were saying Mass as the poor gathered outside the front doors.  Marci and I chatted with an American dentist and his family doing mission work amongst the poor.  A woman holding an infant, in the photo below, pulled me slightly away from the group of Amiricans, and bluntly offered to give me sex for money. I was stunned and embarrassed. I am sure I flushed as I tried to be gentle and firm in my ‘no’.  Because she had been scarred badly in fire and thinking I found her undesirable, she was embarrassed too.




So very sad.

Marci and I have since seen and learned more about the illicit sex trade in poor countries. Both Mexico City and Nicaragua have posters (in English) trying to persuade Americans not to seek children for sex. 


And here we are in Cabo, Mexico.  During Spring Break.  So yes, there are beautiful girls in small bikinis everywhere.  



Sooooo...

Two years ago I came here with my son, Josh. We would walk into town each night for dinner.  And it was a little weird.  Almost every block, sometimes multiple times in a block, girls (always heavily made up and dressed all in black) leaned out of store fronts and asked if we wanted a massage.  Now, having a Mexican in Cabo ask you to buy something is as normal as seafood tacos. But, I really DID want a massage.  So I stopped.



The girl said it was $30 for an hour massage.  But I was stressed- thinking more like a 90 minute stone massage.  When I asked her how much that would be she seemed confused.  She acted like I was talking in code.  She asked the other girls in the shop - and they seemed to settle on the theory that I wanted two therapists.  I left confused.

Josh came to me a few hours later (after some Reddit research) and explained that $30 got you in the door - but there was a great deal more for sale. These shops are all located in the tourist district - where cruise ships dump their American and Canadian passengers.

Yes, I was embarrassed.  I suppose the fact that the shop had a velvet couch in the front window should have been a clue...

Now I just ignore or wave as I walk quickly by.

But it is sad to me that there is a desperation to all of this.  Girls willing, or needy enough, to sell themselves. And men desperate enough to succumb to such a meaningless act.

Like I said before, so very sad.

Wednesday, March 28, 2018

The humble side of Cabo, Mexico

If you are a long time reader of this blog, or if you go back a few posts, or if you know Marci and I very well - then you know the people we really like to seek out on our adventures are the more humble folks.  We enjoy getting to know the cleaning staff, or greeting the maintenance man, or chatting with a poor family operating a food cart among the locals.  We just seem to fit better with these folks.

In contrast, through we LOVE spending time at the infintiy pool - or tasting duck confit with a glass of Cabernet at La Roca - we’d rather chat up the bus boy than listen to the complaining US soccer mom on table fifteen.  We roll our eyes as leather skinned retirees reminisce about trips to St.John’s or how this compares to Maui - just loud enough to make sure everyone else hears the shallow conversation.  Blah!

We talked to a man in Cabo a few years ago. He wistfully spoke about working at the Grand Solmar someday.  He said it was a dream job for a local - and no one would ever mess up the opportunity if they got a job there.  He was waiting for some paperwork from the Mexican state he was raised in (Guerro) before the resort would consider hiring him.  It explains why the staff are so friendly and attentive - they REALLY want this steady income!

I like to take day trips into the town where the staff live.  To greet them and take photos.  To get a feel for the life they live.  It also reminds me how blessed we are - and that it is SO important to spend money here to support the economy and to TIP WELL!

Here are the people who make this five star resort and the whole Cabo experience possible....


































Tuesday, March 27, 2018

Mexican vistas

We have now spent two very relaxing days at the pool, walking along the beach, and enjoying five star food.  I thought I would go light on the writing today, and give you a view of the “texture”of resort life.  Some food, some people, some atmosphere....